Holding the man

Author: Timothy Conigrave
Publisher: Melbourne: McPhee Gribble, 1995.

During the 1970’s, whilst attending a Catholic boys schoo, Timothy Conigrave falls in love with a fellow classmate, John Caleo. Growing up in a time when same-sex relationships were not always respected nor recognised by society, the narrative explores personal relationships, milestones, tragedy and loss that touch Timothy’s life. This moving, and at times intensely romantic, memoir reveals Timothy’s personal growth and heartache. Timothy and his partner journey through years of love, experiencing emotional turmoil and compassion for one another. Whilst delving into heart-wrenching realities, this story provides “strong elements of tolerance and acceptance” (Book to film: Holding the man, ABC radio) that resonate with the Australian reader.

This emotional read will tug at your heartstrings and is difficult to put down.

Available in the non fiction collection at Inner West council library.

For more information:

About the author
Listen to the full ABC discussion on the book to film adaptation
Read community reviews on Goodreads
John Caleo's mother shares her personal story
NSW Writer's Centre book review
Australian Book Review - Peter Kenneally talks about the book in the context of a more contemporary political climate.